“We cannot underestimate the influence of fathers on their children. For boys, they are role models. For girls, they are relationship models.” — Ron Clark, Director of National Programming for the National Fatherhood Initiative

In New York City, 54%of African American children and 43% of Latino children grow up in homes with no father present. This is the continuation of a trend that has unfolded across three generations.

Strengthening Bonds

Extensive research shows that children with absentee fathers are more likely to struggle in school, have behavioral problems and become teen parents themselves. However, the foster care system provides little or no support to reunite these families. That’s why, in 1998, Forestdale launched its Fathering Initiative, designed to help noncustodial fathers strengthen their bonds with their children and families.

The Courses

All participants in the Fathering Initiative take part in a 12-week course that includes parenting and relationship skills, job and education counseling, and anger management courses.  Young fathers, age 16 to 24, attend separate classes that address their specific challenges.  Forestdale has partnered with a variety of experts, such as the Columbia University School of Social Work, to create innovative courses. All of our efforts are focused on helping men become stronger fathers for their children.

A Sense of Belonging

For many men, our program is the first place they have truly felt a sense of belonging. Forestdale extends that sense of community through the Alumni Fathers Program, a unique feature among fathering programs. “No Drama, Much Love,” sponsored by the Child Welfare Fund, offers alumni fathers services such as a co-parenting course, which helps couples build respectful relationships.

The Challenges

The challenges faced by these men are deep: many have struggled with drug addiction, unemployment and depression.  Some were physically or emotionally abused by their own fathers or grew up in foster care.  What’s more, programs that work with offenders are not always well-received.

Real Results

Despite this, Forestdale is committed to holistic family care. We refuse to allow these men to give up on themselves and their children. Every year over 200 fathers graduate from the Forestdale Fathering Initiative. In 2010, 64% of our graduates increased their financial and material support to their children and their children’s mothers. We call that a win.

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